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Devotional: Speak Life: Using Words to Encourage and Empower

Have you ever stopped to think about the power your words carry? Every conversation has the potential to either lift someone up or tear them down. Today’s devotional reminds us of the incredible responsibility we have as followers of Christ to use our words for good. Let’s explore how we can be more intentional in how we speak to others.

Scripture: Ephesians 4:29

“Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.”

Devotional Thought: Using Words to Encourage and Empower

In this verse, Paul warns us against letting any corrupting talk escape our lips. The Greek word for “corrupting” refers to something rotten or spoiled, like bad fruit or decaying food. Just as those things are harmful to our bodies, destructive words harm the souls of those who hear them. But Paul doesn’t stop there—he calls us to replace that negativity with words that build up and give grace.

Our words can offer life-giving encouragement, direction, and hope. When we speak, we should aim to leave people better than we found them. Even in difficult conversations, we can communicate in ways that promote growth, healing, and understanding. Whether in casual conversation, correction, or counsel, let our words be seasoned with grace, reflecting the love of Christ.

Bringing it Home: Applying What We Learned

Here are three ways to apply Ephesians 4:29 in your daily life:

  1. Stop before you speak: Before saying something that could tear down, pause and ask yourself, “Is this building someone up?”
  2. Speak to build up: When addressing challenges or conflicts, focus on constructive feedback that encourages growth.
  3. Give grace: Remember that grace is not just what we receive from God, but what we can extend to others through kind, uplifting words.

Prayer

Lord, help me to control my tongue and to use my words wisely. Teach me to speak with grace, encouraging others and building them up with love. May my words reflect Your heart and bring glory to You. Amen.

Questions for Reflection

  • How often do I pause to consider the impact of my words before speaking?
  • In what ways can I offer more constructive feedback in my conversations?
  • How can I extend grace through my words, even in difficult situations?

Take the Next Step on Your Journey

Thank you for joining me today. If you found this lesson helpful, I encourage you to explore more resources and support on my website, https://jameslongjr.org/. You can also watch my video on my YouTube channel.

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Remember, true change is possible when you walk in God’s grace and for His glory. Until next time, may you find peace, hope, and joy in Christ alone. Blessings!

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