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Devotional: From Anger and Bitterness to Forgiveness through Christ

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“Counseling through the Word” Devotional: From Anger and Bitterness to Forgiveness through Christ

In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus challenges the superficial understanding of righteousness that the religious leaders of His day held. While many people thought that righteousness was simply about external actions—like not committing murder—Jesus showed that righteousness runs much deeper, going beyond actions to the thoughts and attitudes of the heart. In Matthew 5:21-22, He reveals the serious nature of anger and its connection to murder. Just as physical murder is a grave sin, so is harboring anger and resentment in the heart. Jesus elevates the discussion from outward behavior to the inner motivations that lead to destructive actions.

Scripture: Matthew 5:21-22

“You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not murder; and whoever murders will be liable to judgment.’ But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother will be liable to the council; and whoever says, ‘You fool!’ will be liable to the hell of fire.”

Devotional Thought: From Anger and Bitterness to Forgiveness

Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 5:21-22 cuts to the heart of human behavior. Many of us might think we are righteous simply because we haven’t committed physical murder. But Jesus challenges that thinking by pointing out that unrighteous anger is just as dangerous as murder in God’s eyes. 

Anger, when left unchecked, can lead to bitterness, hatred, and destructive actions. It tears apart relationships and causes deep wounds in our hearts and in the lives of others. Jesus is not only concerned with what we do but with why we do it—He cares about the condition of our hearts.

Anger, when allowed to fester, can lead us to insult, belittle, and harm others verbally. These actions, though they may seem insignificant compared to murder, come from the same place of hostility and selfishness. Jesus warns that harboring anger or speaking harmful words makes us liable to judgment. God sees and judges not only the external actions but the internal motivations behind them.

Through Christ, we are called to a higher standard of righteousness, one that reflects God’s love and grace. Rather than allowing anger to control us, we are called to deal with conflicts and offenses in a way that seeks reconciliation and peace.

Bringing it Home: Applying What We Learned

  • Check Your Heart: Don’t just focus on outward actions—take time to examine the anger or resentment that may be hiding in your heart.
  • Deal with Anger Quickly: When anger arises, address it in a godly manner through prayer and reconciliation rather than allowing it to fester.
  • Seek Peace in Relationships: Jesus calls us to be peacemakers, working to resolve conflict and heal broken relationships.

Prayer

Lord, I confess that, at times, I harbor anger and resentment in my heart. Help me to see how destructive these emotions can be, and give me the strength to deal with them in a way that honors You. Teach me to seek reconciliation and peace in my relationships and to reflect Your love and grace in all that I do. Amen.

Questions for Reflection (From Anger to Forgiveness)

In light of Jesus’ teaching on anger and righteousness, consider the following questions:

  • Are there any unresolved conflicts or lingering anger in your heart?
  • How can you address these issues in a way that seeks reconciliation and peace?
  • What steps can you take to ensure that your motivations align with God’s love and grace?

This week, challenge yourself to examine your heart for any hidden anger or resentment. Take proactive steps to address these emotions through prayer, seeking God’s guidance, and working towards reconciliation in your relationships. Reflect on how you can be a peacemaker in your interactions, striving to heal and restore broken relationships.

Take the Next Step on Your Journey

Thank you for joining me today. If you found this lesson helpful, I encourage you to explore more resources and support on my website, https://jameslongjr.org/. You can also watch my video on my YouTube channel.

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Remember, true change is possible when you walk in God’s grace and for His glory. Until next time, may you find peace, hope, and joy in Christ alone. Blessings!

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